You are not alone - There are amazing resources available for you!
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Local Crisis Resources
If you require immediate attention or support please contact the following crisis lines or visit your nearest hospital or call police at 911:
Canada Crisis Number: 1-833-456-4566, text: 45645
Simcoe County Crisis Line: 705-728-5044
Royal Victoria Regional Health Centre Emerg - 201 Georgian Drive, Barrie, ON
Athena's Sexual Assault Support Centre
24 hour crisis line 705-737-2008
Orillia Soldiers’ Memorial Hospital Sexual Assault & Domestic Violence Support
https://www.osmh.on.ca/sexual-assault-domestic-violence/
Translifeline: 1-877-330-6366
Mental Health Crisis Line (Canada Wide): 1-888-893-8333
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Simcoe County Perinatal Practitioner Network www.ambersperling.ca/scppn
Perinatal Wellbeing Ontario www.perinatalwellbeing.ca
Postpartum Support International www.postpartum.net
La Leche League provides free one-on-one and group breast- and chestfeeding support https://www.lllc.ca/
Find a Doula (Association of Ontario Doulas) https://ontariodoulas.org/find-a-doula/
Find a Lactation Consultant (Canadian Lactation Consultant Association) https://www.clca-accl.ca/Find-an-IBCLC-in-your-area
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The Regional Women and Children Program at Orillia Soldiers’ Memorial Hospital (OSMH) provides obstetric and paediatric services to North Simcoe Muskoka. https://www.osmh.on.ca/about-the-program/
Orillia Soldiers’ Memorial Hospital Perinatal Mental Health https://www.osmh.on.ca/mental-health/
Postpartum Support International
1-800-944-4773
Perinatal Wellbeing Ontario (support groups and "pay what you can" therapy)
Simcoe Muskoka Health Unit: https://www.simcoemuskokahealth.org/HealthUnit/Services/ClassesTraining.aspx
Mt. Sinai perinatal mental health program: 416-586-4800 x8325
Women’s College Reproductive Life Stages program:
416-323-6400 x5635Postpartum Support International - Provider Directory
Visit the Online Provider Directory to find a knowledgeable/specialized perinatal mental health provider (Psychiatrist, Psychologist, Social Worker, or Psychotherapist) near you.
BRIA
From planning pregnancy to perimenopause, BRIA offers psychiatrist-designed care programs to ensure women’s mental health needs are met with compassion and expertise. Optimal care requires an individualized approach for each person’s mental health needs. SELF-REFERRAL accepted. A BRIA Care Coordinator will ensure that BRIA members have timely access to a variety of treatments such as individual and relationship counselling, support groups, and psychiatric assessments for medication prescriptions when necessary. Services covered by extended benefits, OHIP services limited.
Mood Disorder Association of Ontario (MDAO)
Barrie Chapter - http://www.mooddisorders.ca/event/barrie-peer-support-
group-mood-disorders-self-help-group-of-barrie
Barrie (family support) - http://www.mooddisorders.ca/event/barrie-
family-support-barrie-family-and-friends-health-support-group
Orillia Chapter – http://www.mooddisorders.ca/event/orillia-peer-support-
group-orillia-damd-self-help-group
Midland Chapter - http://www.mooddisorders.ca/event/midland-peer-
support-group-dmd-group-of-midlandpenetang
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Books:
Impossible Parenting by Olivia Scobie
Parenting from the Inside Out by Daniel Siegel and Mary Hartzell (or really any of Dan Siegel's parenting books!)
Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts by Karen Kleiman
Raising Good Humans By Hunter Clarke-Fields
The Conscious Parent by Shefali Tsabary
The Highly Sensitive Parent by Elaine Aron
The Gentle Parenting Book by Sarah Okwell-Smith
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
Healing Your Lost Inner Child by Robert Jackman
Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids, by Dr.Laura Markham
How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids: A Practical Guide to Becoming a Calmer, Happier Parent by Carla Naumburg
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson
Raising Securely Attached Kids by Eli Harwood
Raising Mentally Strong Kids by Daniel G.Amen and Charles Fay
Podcasts:
Mom and Mind with Katayune Kaeni
Perinatal Wellbeing with Christine Cunningham
Unruffled with Janet Lansbury
Mommy Brain Revisted with Jodi Pawluski
Good Inside with Dr. Becky (also on IG)
The Good Enough Mother with Sophie Brock
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https://postbabyhankypanky.com/ Postpartum Sex in Relationships
Books:
What About Us? by Karen Kleiman
And Baby Makes Three by John Gottman & Julie Schwartz Gottman
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids by Jancee Dunn
Podcasts:
Where Should We Begin with Ester Perel
Instagram:
@psychedmommy
@loveafterbaby
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Prevention and Treatment of Traumatic Childbirth (PATTCh)
EMDR for Birth Trauma and PTSD
Books:
Why Birth Trauma Matters by Emma Svanberg
Healing Your Birth Story: releasing the unexpected by Maureen Campion
Birth Trauma by Kim Thomas
When Survivors Give Birth by Penny Simkin & Phyllis Klaus
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
Podcasts:
The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast with Kayleigh Summers
What We Can Do About Obstetric Violence and Birth Trauma with Cristin Pascucci with Dr. Nicole Rankins
Instagram:
@thebirthtrauma_mama
@theteaonbirthtrauma
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Resources and Support Groups:
PAIL Network Ontario https://pailnetwork.sunnybrook.ca/
PAIL Network support groups available here. https://pailnetwork.sunnybrook.ca/programs-for-parents/
Return to Zero https://rtzhope.org/
Register for RTZ Virtual Support groups here: https://rtzhope.org/register
Baby's Breath Canada https://www.babysbreathcanada.ca/
Perinatal Hospice https://www.perinatalhospice.org/
Bereaved Families of Ontario https://bereavedfamilies.net/
PSI: Loss & Grief in Pregnancy & Postpartum https://www.postpartum.net/get-help/loss-grief-in-pregnancy-postpartum/
Miscarriage for Men https://www.miscarriageformen.com/
Books:
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart by Deborah L Davis (about all kinds of pregnancy loss)
Through Not Around: Stories of Infertility and Pregnancy Loss by Alison McDonald Ace, Caroline Starr, and Ariel Ng Bourbonnais
Grief is Love: Living with Loss by Marisa Renee Lee
An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination by Elizabeth McCracken
It’s OK that You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture that Doesn’t Understand by Megan Devine
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron
Podcasts:
Mom and Mind with Katayune Kaeni
Beyond the Loss by the Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support Centre
Miscarriage Stories with Arden Cartrette
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International OCD Foundation: Perinatal OCD https://iocdf.org/expert-opinions/perinatal-ocd/
Postpartum Support International: Obsessive Symptoms https://www.postpartum.net/perinatal-mental-health/#OCD
About Perinatal OCD https://www.postpartum.net/perinatal-mental-health/#OCD
Maternal OCD https://maternalocd.org/
Books:
Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts by Karen Kleiman
Dropping the Baby and Other Scary Thoughts by Karen Kleiman and Amy Wenzel
Podcasts:
All the Hard Things with Jenna Overbaugh
The OCD Stories with Stuart Ralph
YouTube:
Postpartum OCD: Causes and Treatment by Nathan Peterson https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkNjOPgAe3g
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Ending a Wanted Pregnancy: https://endingawantedpregnancy.com/
Ending a Wanted Pregnancy also runs a private support
Terminations Remembered: https://terminationsremembered.com/#google_vignette
They also run a private Facebook group (application here): https://terminationsremembered.com/join-the-tfmr-facebook-group/
Pregnancy and Infant Loss (PAIL) Network Ontario: https://pailnetwork.sunnybrook.ca/
PAIL network also offers a support group specific to TFMR. https://pailnetwork.sunnybrook.ca/peer-support/
Pregnancy After Loss has a support group for TFMR. https://pregnancyafterlosssupport.org/get-support/pals-private-groups/apply-to-join-tfmr/
TFMRmamas offers support groups and private facebook groups https://www.tfmrmamas.com/
Books:
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart by Deborah L Davis (about all kinds of pregnancy loss)
Our Heartbreaking Choices by Christie Brooks
Flowers in Our Womb: 19 Stories of Termination of Pregnancies for Medical Reasons by Ale Munoz
The Burden of Choice by Georgina Pearson
Podcasts:
Time to Talk TFMR
The Worst Girl Gang Ever (numerous episodes)
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Dad Central Ontario https://dadcentral.ca/
PSI Help for Partners and Families https://www.postpartum.net/get-help/family/
Postpartum Dads http://postpartumdads.org/
Helping Men Beat the Baby Blues and Overcome Depression https://postpartummen.com/
Miscarriage for Men https://www.miscarriageformen.com/
New Dad Manual - www.newdadmanual.ca
Dad Central - http://www.dadcentral.ca/
Dad Central Ontario - https://www.facebook.com/dadcentralontario/
Books:
The Postpartum Husband by Karen Kleiman
What Not to Do When Your Wife has PPD (Article) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/isnt-what-i-expected/201103/dads-what-do-what-not-do-when-your-wife-has-ppd
Supporting Your Postpartum Partner (Article) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/preparing-for-parenthood/202402/supporting-your-postpartum-partner
10 Ways to Support a New Mom (Brochure) https://static1.squarespace.com/static/56d5ca187da24ffed7378b40/t/56fefdd507eaa0a58ebd8983/1459551702047/Supporting+a+New+Mom(1).pdf
Fathers Respond to Perinatal and Postpartum Mood and Anxiety Disorders (Video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uX-RAaA2G4
Podcasts:
Dad Space Podcast with Dave Campbell